if you have everything handed to you & you don't have to work for what you want...
you have nothing to strive for.
life is about taking the time.
taking the time & making the effort.
what you want in life will come one day.
then, naturally you adopt something else to work towards.
we as humans must always have something to strive for, in order to be truly happy.
notice that the happiest people you know, are TRYING for something.
whether that be going to school, becoming successful, raising a family, whatever.